FAQ & RESOURCES

ABOUT ME

  • Be it emotional or physical, inflicting pain is my absolute favorite style of play. Overstimulation and role play are close seconds.
    There are two things that send me into domme space, seeing intense vulnerable expression and musing over a submissive's suffering.

  • I appreciate subs that are:

    Respectful:
    They know their place and do not cross boundaries.

    Obedient:
    They surrender completely and allow me to take the reins while following instructions carefully.

    Self aware:
    They are in tune with themselves and their bodies and are able to identify how they're feeling with ease.

    Communicative:
    They know their wants and desires and have no qualms about about communicating them to me respectfully. They give good verbal feedback before, during, and after a scene.

    Thoughtful:
    They put in time and effort in pleasing me, noticing even the smallest detail.

    Pair those traits with a great personal hygiene, an effort in personal aesthetics, and masochism and you are my ideal sub.

  • You are not to touch me without permission and I will not be nude.

    I do not participate in any acts that are considered illegal, non-consensual, or harmful as well as:

    Castration, Brown, Crimson, or Roman showers, Raceplay, Ageplay, Bloodplay, Wrestling, Switching, or Bottoming of any kind.

  • I believe in the PRICK framework of kink which stands for "Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink" meaning I will do my due diligence in creating a safe non-judgmental space for you to explore your desires, however you have a personal responsibility of knowing yourself and understanding what you're getting yourself into.

  • I am open to arrangements on a case by case basis. If you would like to have a long term arrangement with me, message me by using my contact form or emailing me at supremegoddessgemini@proton.me to discuss the details. I will only consider arrangements with subs that are completely compatible and aligned.

  • One or few word answers: If I am putting in the effort to create a personal experience for you, I will need more than "I want to be dominated". Give as much detail as possible when filling your application and during our consult.

IN PERSON SESSIONS

  • I operate in the San Francisco Bay Area.
    Out of dungeons in Berkeley and Oakland, CA.

  • I do accommodate outcalls only for established submissives on a case by case basis and only entertain other fully equipped dungeon space or 4 star hotels, which will be covered by you along with all other travel expenses.

  • I am currently not open to travel at the moment, but will be in the future.

  • DO research my social media and website to make sure we are aligned in our interests and desires.

    DO be as detailed as possible when filling out the application. The more context the better the experience for both of us.


    DO review the any session policies here which can be found next to the booking form.

    DO be communicative if anything in our negotiations have changed.

    DO be punctual, freshly showered, in a stable mood, and pre-prepped for any type of play that we negotiated beforehand. This includes prepping for any anal play which can be found here.

    DO address me by my honorific "Goddess"

    DO have a cash tribute ready before the session begins in an unsealed envelope. Be ready to count it in front of me and kneel while presenting it to me.

    DO bring extra cash if you are planning to tip or any gifts to show your appreciation. Click here for what to bring to win my favor.

    DO NOT touch me without permission.

    DO NOT ask for or expect sex or nudity.

    DO NOT wait for me to ask you tribute.

    DO NOT come unwashed or unprepared.

  • Yes, I am happy to take in new clients and show them the fantastic world of BDSM. However, new clients must book at least 1.5 hours for their first session because we will spend a lot of time exploring the unexplored.

    Alternatively, consider the Date and Dom option where we can go out and get to know each other before entering the dungeon.

ONLINE SESSIONS

  • Online submission begins by following me on social media or any of my fan sites. There you can see my content, buy exclusive videos, interact with me on live streams, and even opt for 1 on 1 text, call, or video session.

    Understand that I am a professional dominatrix, and this is my career. I am happy to interact and form a genuine connection with you online, but my time must be compensated.

  • The way I run my online interactions is completely different than how I run my in person sessions. Due to the fast paced nature of the online space, proper negotiations can be challenging without disrupting the mood. When engaging in online submission with me, I expect my clients to come informed with what their desires are, and the risks involved in the type of play they want to engage in. I make it clear that I offer safety measures such as safe words and budgets, but it is your responsibility to ask for them in our dynamic.

    Alcohol can also be addicting, but does that mean we close down bars?

    No. We take personal responsibility of ourselves.

COACHING

  • I work with couples that need help creating the safe, exhilarating, and intense D/S dynamics of their dreams.

    I offer online webcam sessions and in person guidance sessions.

    These sessions are not traditional play sessions. They are me guiding you through a session by acting as your co-top/domme. If you are looking for a play session you can book here.

RESOURCES


Here is a collection of resources created by other kink educators or organizations that can help you prepare for our session or expand your own knowledge and self discovery.

Anal Cleaning: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmRF2_FBntw

Pro-Domme Etiquette: https://www.simonejustice.com/single-post/behavior-with-a-dominant

BDSM Safety Frameworks: https://kynk101.com/kink-bdsm-facts/ssc-rack-prick

Kink Encyclopedia: https://kynk101.com/kynklopedia